educationally woke - tries to hide its overall message

An "elderly" successful woman has an affair with a young guy in his twenties. Every company meeting is DEI cast - everywhere you see more people standing around they're well mixed, i.e. always Asian, African, White (and obese) together. The business woman has two daughters - one is lesbian and when she is in the pool with the neighbor's 17-year old daughter the main concern is that age (17) might be a problem. The 20-something lover wants his old-gal lover to say out loud that she will follow all his orders. At first I thought this might be a kind of dirty talk - but then it dawned on me. No, this is "only yes is yes", as in Swedish law, where either you verbally agree or it's practically rape. I could go on and on. This is a far cry from great old woman young guy movies like White Palace with Susan Sarandon - unpleasantly woke. The older woman has normal sex, but - woe is me! - from behind. Her husband finds this degrading. With the intern it's (of course) different, but they actually have to agree on a "safe word" as in hardcore bdsm - mind you, for pretty normal heterosexual encounters. This is about as "daring" as "naked" table legs in Victorian Britain. The main actresses black colleague hints at blackmailing her for the sin of sleeping with someone from the office hierarchically below her (tut, tut) ...